Often times on this blog we talk about some of the heavier topics around marriage.

Sometimes it all gets so serious.  This week I needed a break from that.

So, today I want to lighten things up and have a little fun.

What better way to do that than to share some hot and steamy sexy date night games?

Before we dive into some amazing sexy date night ideas, let’s take a minute and talk about the importance of date nights.

For Joel and I, date nights have become an important part of our marriage.   They have become a key element in helping us maintain our connection throughout our busy weeks.

When we find ourselves struggling or feeling disconnected, we tend to look back and realize that we haven’t had any one-on-one time in a while. Lack of date nights is often the culprit.

Are date nights important to a marriage?

My answer is yes!

Really, all I mean by a date night (or date day, or date morning) is spending some one-on-one time together. Like you did before the kids and jobs and chaos took over.

It doesn’t have to mean dressing up, going out and spending money, although that is always fun.  

All it really means is that you are intentionally creating a space for you and your partner to have some one-on-one time.

Is that essential in a marriage? 

ABSOLUTELY!!!!

Joel and I have have two children.  They are both teens now, but when they were younger, having date night at home was essential for us because it was the only way for us to get time alone together.

If we wanted to spend quality time together then we had to put date nights on the calendar.  Whether that meant staying at home and giving each other foot massages, or getting a sitter and going to dinner, we chose to do it. 

Why?  Because we valued our relationship too much to let it fall victim to the chaos of life.

My guess is you do too!

Date night at home, especially, has become something we really enjoy.  But, planning a date night at home means you have to sometimes get creative. 

We have had all kinds of fun date nights like: playing board games, asking fun questions, playing darts, doing puzzles, giving foot rubs, hanging in the Jacuzzi.

But, if I’m being honest, the dates that have been most fun have been those evenings where we planned sexy date nights.  

And one of the best ways, we have found to have a sexy date night, is to play sexy date night games.

Joel and I have tried many games.  Some we loved and others not so much.

Today I’m sharing the winners. These are some of our very favorites. 

So, you can trust that they are super hot and oh so fun!

Try them out.  Make them your own.  And let us know what you think!

Here they go . . .

6 Sexy Date Night Games That Will Heat Things Up!

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1. MAGIC WORD

Supplies Needed:

  • Nothing.  Just your mouths 🙂

How to Play:

Secretly think of a word in your head and don’t tell your partner what it is.

Every time your partner says that word in a paragraph, you give them a kiss. And you keep going until they guess the word.

Unfortunately my husband is very good at guessing the word so we don’t last very long in this one. But it is a fun way to stay connected with your partner throughout the day.

This is a great game to play on a date or just on a normal day.

It is sure to make you laugh and feel closer to each other.

2. GUESS THE WORD

Supplies Needed: 

  • Nothing!  Just your mouths.

How to Play:

Sit facing each other close enough to kiss.

Decide who goes first.

The first partner thinks of a secret word.  It is more fun if it is a sexy word.

Then get ready for a French kiss. But instead of kissing, the partner who goes first uses their tongue to spell the word inside the other partner’s mouth.

Can your partner guess the word?  When they do, switch!

It might sound a little weird, but trust me, it’s really fun and really sexy.  It will be difficult to just stop at spelling words 🙂

3. TWO MINUTES IN HEAVEN

Supplies Needed: 

  • Piece of paper
  • Something to write with
  • Single game dice
  • A timer

How to Play:

Number the piece of paper 1-6 twice.  One list is for you and one list is for your partner.

Next, each of you write down a different body part next to each number.  So you each have 6 body parts.

Each of you will pick the body parts on your body that you are comfortable with.  You can talk about this ahead of time and make sure that the body parts fit comfortably within your boundaries.

Then, choose who goes first and that person the rolls the dice. 

Whatever number it lands on then coincides with a body part on your partner’s list.

Now it’s time to get sexy. 

Set the timer for two minutes and the person that rolled the dice then kisses, licks, teases that part of their partner’s body til the timer goes off.

Once the timer goes off, switch.

This is definitely going to heat things up, I promise you that.

4. STRIP BLACKJACK

Supplies needed:

  • 10 Pieces of clothing for each of you
  • Deck of cards

How to play:

Decide on rules of the game.  What happens when you loose a round? What happens to the person who looses the game? 

Here are some of our rules of choice that you can use for inspiration –

    • The person who wins a round chooses what item of clothing the loser has to remove.
    • The loser of each round has to take a sip of wine or other alcohol. 
    • The loser of each round has to walk the “runway” and pose in their new level of undress. 
    • The winner of each round gets a kiss.
    • And we agree upon a reward for the last person left with clothes on.

Next, go into separate rooms and layer up the clothing.  You can choose sexy clothes, funny clothes, accessories.  Anything goes.

Choose a dealer and you play a round of blackjack.

The loser of that round has to remove the piece of clothing and follow the agreed upon set of rules.

Then, play another round with the same rules.  Keep going.  The person who is naked first loses the game and the loser has to give the winner their agreed upon reward. 

This one is our favorite, and we play it almost any time we’re away for an overnighter. It’s fun, silly, exciting and super sexy.

And let me just say that this works with any board game; you can create your own strip-anything, so keep that in mind if blackjack isn’t your game.

5. STRIP CUP PONG

Supplies Needed:

  • 20 Solo cups
  • 10 items of clothing for each of you
  • Alcohol or water,  it’s up to you.
  • Ping pong balls.
  • Long table

How to Play:

What you will need for this one is some privacy, first and foremost (you probably want to make sure this is one where the kids are gone so you can feel free to have a good time).

Next, go into separate rooms and layer up the clothing.  You can choose sexy clothes, funny clothes, accessories.  Again, anything goes.

Set up 10 solo cups on each side of the table a triangle. If you have never played beer pong, check out the picture here for how to set up.

You and your partner stand on opposite ends of the table.

Choose who goes first.

The first person tries to throw the ball into the cup on the opposite end. If they make it in, their partner drinks from the cup (or you can take a sip from a separate cup, like we did).

Then, the loser of that round removes that cup from the triangle and removes a piece of clothing at the same time.

Then switch.  Keep going back and forth trying to land the ball in your partner’s cup.

The person with the last cup standing and at least one piece of clothing on wins.

We just discovered this one recently and we have only played it once, but I guarantee it’s going to become part of our repertoire of sexy date night games. 

Give it a try!  You won’t regret it!

6. NAME THAT TREAT

Supplies Needed:

  • Blindfold
  • 20 items of treats to be tasted
  • A sexy mood setting

How to Play:

We got this idea from Dating Divas.  They are an awesome resource for killer date night games.

Here’s what you’re going to do.  You will each secretly purchase 10 items for your partner to taste at the grocery store.  You can choose sweet items, savory items, surprising items.  That is your choice. You can set up boundaries for that, if you want to, ahead of time.

After you bring your treats home, separately arrange them on trays or plates so that the foods are easily accessible and utensils are handy if you need them.  Be sure to keep your tray or plate covered with a kitchen towel so there is no peeking.

Choose who goes first and blindfold that person. The partner who is not blindfolded feeds their spouse their first treat.  Can your spouse guess what you have fed them without looking?

You can add to the sexiness of this game by having them lick it off your finger or other body parts!

Then you give each other a sexy kiss and switch who gets blindfolded. You go back and forth like this until all 20 items have been tasted.

According to Joel, this is the sexiest game we ever played. So you definitely want to make sure you give this one a try!

 

Remember date night is a key ingredient to maintaining connection in a marriage. 

And sprinkling in some sexy date night games is not only going to keep you connected, but they will keep things hot!

Let us know which games you tried.  And share some of your date night games.  We would love to hear.

6 sexy date night games that will heat things up